This Guy That I Met On A Dating Website Who Lives Far Away Doesn’t Like Me Romantically, But He Doesn’t Like The Idea Of Severing The Connection. Should I End It For Good?

This Guy That I Met On A Dating Website Who Lives Far Away Doesn't Like Me Romantically, But He Doesn't Like The Idea Of Severing The Connection. Should I End It For Good?

You should end it for good if what you want is to be with him romantically.

If this guy that you met on a dating website who lives far away doesn’t like you romantically, he wouldn’t be a good candidate to continue interacting with.

He may not like the idea of severing the connection because he just enjoys talking to you.

It doesn’t mean that anything romantic will come out of continuing to talk to him.

If you were to continue talking to him in the hopes that at some point, he will change his mind about not liking you romantically, you will be making yourself incredibly vulnerable.

He will most likely be talking to other women as he continues talking to you.

Being that he doesn’t like you romantically, he will be looking for romance elsewhere.

Hence, it is very likely that you would ultimately become heartbroken when in a few weeks or months from now, he tells you that he has found a girlfriend.

You would have spent all this time continuing to talk to him and becoming more emotionally invested in him as a result, to then discover that he has found a romantic partner.

Again, this would be disheartening.

This is why you should end it for good.

This guy doesn’t like the idea of severing the connection with you because he probably still wants to use you as someone that he can talk to while he remains in the pursuit of someone else that he can find romance with.

You shouldn’t fall into the trap of believing that he will come around to liking you romantically if you were to continue talking to him.

You should end it for good because continuing to talk to him would distract you from focusing your attention on talking to other guys who may be better matches for you on the dating website.

Also acknowledge that this is guy that you met on a dating website who lives far away from you.

It would be very difficult for you to maintain a relationship with him even if he were to eventually come around and start liking you romantically.

He has his reasons for not liking you romantically.

Indeed, the fact that he lives far away from you could be a factor.

However, he may also just not feel a romantic connection with you.

The both of you have probably talked long enough for him to understand that this romantic connection simply isn’t there.

If you were to make yourself believe that by continuing to talk to him, this romantic connection will eventually come about, you would be wasting your precious time.

There really isn’t much else that you can say that would change his mind.

A guy either feels a romantic connection with you or he doesn’t.

In fact, the harder that you try to get him to like you romantically when he has already told you that he doesn’t like you in that way, the more desperate you will come off to him.

This alone would be enough to turn him off.

Hence, all of your efforts to get him to change his mind would actually work against you in the long run.

This is why it is best to sever your connection with this guy and end it for good.

The fact that he told you that he doesn’t like the idea of severing the connection is irrelevant.

What matters most is doing what works best for you.

Ending it now would give you a chance to move on while you are still able to do it relatively easily.

If you wait too long to do this, you would only make it that much harder for you to end it for good.