He may believe that there is something better waiting for him.
Unfortunately, this is the kind of mentality that some people who do online dating have.
They have spent so much time browsing through online dating profiles that even when they seemingly find their best match, they continue spending time on the online dating website and effectively spend less time getting to know their best match.
Online dating has provided so many dating options for people that sometimes these people forget the reason why they started online dating in the first place.
They forget that they didn’t start online dating just so that they can have endless dates or browse endless online dating profiles.
They started online dating in order to meet their best match.
This initial objective gets lost to some people when they start online dating.
They now have access to more potential dates than they ever had in the real world.
Sometimes, some people can completely get lost in this.
When they finally find their best match after having searched through multiple online dating profiles, they still end up not being able to help themselves but keep searching.
The constant searching and plethora of dating options has made them feel like they truly can never run out.
This is a mentality that may set in without their initial awareness.
Hence, when you meet this guy who appears to be the best match for you, he is still busy spending time on the online dating website instead of investing that time and energy in getting to know you as a person.
Again, some people who are online dating get into this kind of behavior without realizing that they have a problem.
They have gotten so used to browsing through online dating profiles that it is now a habit that they are unable to stop.
They may tell themselves or make themselves believe that they are indeed spending the time to get to know you as a person that they consider to be their best match, even though, clearly, their actions aren’t showing that.
However, they make themselves believe this because it excuses them from having to address the fact that they are spending more time on the online dating website than they are spending trying to get to know you as apparently the best match that they found.
Also, a guy will behave in this way because he may still be talking to multiple other women on the online dating website.
Even though he may have told you that you are the best match that he found, he may still be talking to these other women online because he likes the attention.
He also likes the fact that maintaining contact with these women allows him to have other dating options in case things don’t work out with you.
Hence, he continues to spend time on the online dating website communicating with these other women so that he stays connected with them.
He may have had plans to meet some of them in real life but put those plans on hold because he met you.
However, he is still spending time communicating with these women on the online dating website because he wants to ensure that he can still ultimately meet them in real life if things don’t work out with you.