The odds aren’t.
The success of an average looking guy on online dating sites really depends on his approach.
As an average looking guy on online dating sites, you should avoid making the same mistakes that a lot of other average looking guys make.
These average looking guys increase the odds against them being successful in online dating when they primarily focus on sending messages to the most beautiful women on the online dating sites.
These messages are also often frivolous and tend to solely focus on the woman’s looks.
Beautiful women tend to get the most messages from men on dating sites.
Hence, the odds that they will respond to a frivolous message from an average looking guy is highly unlikely.
These average looking guys are solely focusing on sending messages to women that they never would have had the courage to approach in real life and when they send these messages, they are awful.
Hence, these average looking guys fail on online dating sites and fail miserably.
You will increase the odds of being successful on an online dating site as an average looking guy when you focus on your personality first and what makes it unique.
You should take the time to construct a very well-written online dating profile that you have infused with your personality and is fun to read.
You should then upload recent, quality photos of yourself that shows you engaged in fun activities.
The kind of photos that you put up on your online dating profile can make such a difference in the odds of whether you have success in online dating or not.
Too many average looking guys make the mistake of putting up photos that aren’t that clear or well shot because they are trying to hide their average looks.
Other average looking guys choose to put up photos where they are photographed alongside a bunch of other people so that they can hide in those photos.
Oftentimes, one would have to work hard just to pick out who in the bunch is the average looking guy in question.
This only causes that much more confusion for the people who are reading the online dating profile of this particular average looking guy.
You should never do this with your photos.
You should be easy to pick out in all of your photos.
You shouldn’t be hiding among a bunch of friends or colleagues in your photos.
Your physicality shouldn’t be constantly hidden or obscured by objects or bad camera angles.
The more open and honest you are with your online dating profile photos, the more confidence you exude to the person who is reading your online dating profile.
Women absolutely love confidence in a guy.
When you upload several photos into your online dating profile that clearly show you, as well as show the fun activities that you are engaged in, you can tremendously increase the odds that you will have success in finding romantic matches in online dating.
You will have a stronger likelihood that women would actually initiate sending messages to you.
And yes, some of these women will be attractive as well.
Online dating is a numbers game.
The more appealing you make your online dating profile, the more messages you will get from women.
The more messages you get from women, the higher the odds that a decent number of them would be women that you are attracted to.