Avoid having unrealistic expectations.
A big mistake that average looking guys make when they join online dating sites is that they tend to start with sending messages to the most beautiful women on the online dating website.
These average looking guys are suddenly of the notion that simply because they are now using an online dating site that somehow this changes their level of physical appeal.
They are soon brought back down to reality when they notice that none of the messages that they sent to these beautiful women have been responded to.
As an average looking guy, there is a need to be realistic.
If you never attracted beautiful women in your real world, to believe that you are suddenly going to do that now that you are doing online dating is dangerous.
It doesn’t mean that it isn’t possible.
However, when as an average looking guy you only focus your attention on sending messages to the most beautiful women on the online dating sites, you greatly reduce your chances of getting responses.
Understand that when it comes to beautiful women, they have always gotten attention.
In the real world, beautiful women tend to get the most attention from guys.
They are used to this and tend to be picky in life.
When beautiful women join online dating sites, the attention that they are used to getting from men is magnified tremendously.
One of the major reasons for this is because all the guys who are members of the online dating site now believe that they have a shot with her.
This is across the spectrum of guys from the most attractive guys to the least attractive guys.
Beautiful women on dating sites start getting messages from guys that would have never had the courage to approach these women in real life.
That is oftentimes what online dating does to guys.
It emboldens them.
It takes away the fear of rejection because it feels more impersonal when you are approaching someone on an online dating site than when you approach them in real life.
It is easier for these guys to risk rejection on online dating sites because they aren’t face to face with the girl.
Hence, as an average looking guy, you have your work cut out for you because just about every other guy is sending messages to the same beautiful women that you are sending messages to.
This means that these beautiful women will rarely respond to these messages.
This is why, as an average looking guy who is online dating, you should send messages to a variety of women.
Not only the most beautiful ones.
This gives you a better chance at getting responses.
Also, as an average looking guy you should ensure that you make a really magnificent online dating profile.
Infuse your personality into your online dating profile so that it is fun to read.
This is where you will have the best chance of getting a beautiful woman to give you a chance if you aren’t really someone she would normally be attracted to in real life.
It is what a lot of average looking guys in the real world do to get beautiful women.
They show these women their riveting personalities.
They may make these women laugh, chuckle or gasp.
They make these women feel emotions that make them feel good.
In essence, these average looking guys in the real world win over these beautiful women thanks to their dynamic personalities.
You should have this approach with your online dating profile.
The more fun and entertaining you make it, the higher the likelihood that you will get the attention of a beautiful woman who would be willing to give you a chance.