He just didn’t feel like he was meeting the right kind of people on there.
He may have had an alright time talking to you but he may have still been dissatisfied with his experience on the dating site.
You may have caught him at the tail end of his tolerance.
Perhaps he had already been on the dating site for weeks and gotten nothing out of it but dead-end conversations and mismatches.
He may have really been approaching the end of his rope.
You happen to show up and the both of you start engaging in conversations that you believed were going well.
Perhaps they were.
But he most likely didn’t feel like a few good exchanges with you was enough to keep him on the dating site.
As a result, you have now discovered that he’s not there anymore.
He was probably hoping for a different kind of experience on the dating site.
He may have believed that it would be easy for him to find what he was looking for.
He may have initially joined the dating site with some strong expectations.
However, once he realized that his expectations weren’t being met, he may have decided that it would be best to no longer be on the dating site.
He’s not on there anymore because he may have either decided to give up on online dating entirely or he may have decided to try out another dating site.
Try not to feel the need to start trying to find this guy online.
This is often the trap that people fall into when they meet someone on a dating site that they like and the person’s dating profile suddenly disappears without warning.
They become upset that they are no longer able to talk to this person.
They allow themselves to get lost in the belief that this was a person who they would have really connected with.
They start creating the perfect scenarios in their minds about how things would have gone with this person, based off of the few conversations that they had with the person on the dating site.
This is very dangerous.
Once you allow your mind to start creating these scenarios, you could mislead yourself into believing that the correspondence would have been perfect.
Your mind would create the most rewarding scenarios so as to keep making you feel good.
This doesn’t help you.
Try to understand that he was on the dating site and is not on there anymore because he wanted to leave.
This shows that his conversations with you on the dating site weren’t good enough to keep him on the dating site.
Again, try not to make yourself believe that these conversations were more special than they really were.
Try not to fall into the temptation of trying to find him online through his social media or whatever other means that you choose.
Even if you were to do this and you were to find him, he would most likely feel awkward that you sought him out.
He would wonder about why you went this far.
He may even question whether you are desperate.
After all, he had a few good conversations with you on the dating site and that was all there was to it.
Those conversations weren’t necessarily memorable to him.
They were enjoyable at the time and no more.
The fact that you have now found him online may make him question just how desperate and needy you are to find someone.
You should never put yourself in this position.
Just understand that when you chat with someone on a dating site, there are no guarantees that the person will still be on the dating site when you return.
This is why you should not allow conversations to go on indefinitely on a dating site.
Once you have reached a good point of comfort with the person, you should start communicating through a different medium.
This way, you take communication away from the dating site and allow yourselves to keep the correspondence going.