He isn’t truly interested in you.

When a guy is into you one minute and distant the next, he is showing that it is very easy for him to stop communicating with you for a period of time.

When it is that easy for him to do this, he is not emotionally invested in the interaction.

When he is into you one minute and distant the next, he is most likely showing that he is more invested in the interactions that he is having with other girls on the dating website.

These girls have more priority to him than you do.

The times when this guy that you met on a dating website is being all into you, he may have less distractions around him.

Perhaps he has suddenly come to a point where a girl that he has been simultaneously talking to on the dating website is unavailable.

He doesn’t want to be without someone to talk to.

This is when he reaches out to you.

He becomes really sweet to you and tells you about how much he may have missed talking to you.

You become really excited at the fact that he has reestablished contact with you.

The both of you may talk for a while and everything seems to be going well.

He may flirt with you often and even make empty promises about meeting up with you in person at some point in the future.

All of a sudden, just as you are becoming more comfortable and secure in talking to him, he becomes distant again.

You are so unhappy that this has happened yet again.

This guy that you met on a dating website most likely became distant yet again because he found a new distraction in another girl or another set of girls that he found on the dating website.

Hence, all this time that he was talking to you and being all into you, he was most likely just biding his time until someone of more interest to him came along.

This is most likely what he has been doing whenever he has shown himself to be into you one minute and distant the next.

He becomes distant because he has most likely found someone new to talk to or he has rekindled an ongoing conversation that he was having with someone else.

You should not misinterpret this guy’s intentions whenever he is being into you.

You could easily tell yourself that this must mean that he likes you.

However, the fact that this guy that you met on a dating website keeps showing that he is into you one minute and then becomes distant the next would indicate that he is not truly interested in you.

A guy who is truly interested in you would not be so haphazard.

He would want to take the time to truly get to know you because he would be excited about you.

When a guy is in and out of contact with you in this way, he is not showing a true desire to get to know you.

He is showing that he is only willing to talk to you when there is no one better that he can talk to on the dating website.

Beware of guys who behave in this way.

You could let yourself believe that they must be interested in you because they are so charming when they act all into you.

This could lead you to start having feelings for them.

This isn’t wise.

These guys don’t have those kind of feelings for you and never will.

When you come across a guy on a dating website that acts like he is into you one minute and becomes distant the next, it is best to let him go and move on.