Clearly, things didn’t work out with this girl.

However, a girl accepting you on Facebook and talking to you for a while doesn’t automatically mean that she is going to like you romantically or want to be in a relationship with you.

Understanding this will spare you from even more broken hearts in the future.

Oftentimes, a girl you meet on an online dating site will be fine with accepting you on her Facebook when Facebook is her preferred medium of communication.

In other words, she tends to communicate with most of the people that she knows through Facebook.

Accepting you on Facebook doesn’t automatically mean that you are going to be someone that ultimately gets into a romantic relationship with her.

She may have seen some potential in you and thereby accepted you on Facebook, but this was in no way a guarantee that she would ultimately want to be with you romantically.

There is a good chance that this girl that you met on an online dating site has also accepted other friend requests from guys that she met on the dating site.

Again, if Facebook is her preferred medium of communication, it would make sense that she would accept the friend requests of these guys.

Indeed, she may have accepted you on Facebook as well as other guys because she finds something about you intriguing.

She may have liked your photos on the online dating site or she may have liked the way you went about interacting with her on the online dating site.

As a result, she may have thought that it would be best to continue communicating with you on Facebook because that is normally where she is in cyberspace and she feels more comfortable communicating through Facebook than through the online dating site.

Your heart may be broken now but do understand that a lot of that could have to do with the possibility that she simply didn’t feel a spark with you based on the conversations on Facebook.

Being that you talked for a while with this girl on Facebook, there is a good chance that she got a good feel for the kind of person you are through those conversations.

There may have been a point during her interaction with you on Facebook that she realized that the both of you wouldn’t be a good match.

Being that the both of you talked for a while, she was able to get a really good gauge for your personality and lifestyle during that time.

Perhaps she thought that the both of you didn’t have enough in common.

Perhaps she thought that the both of you were going on very different paths in life and thereby simply wouldn’t be a match.

She may have even gotten to the point where you started reminding her of certain family members thereby making it that much harder for her to look at you as a romantic prospect.

A number of things could have happened during the course of your talks with her that ultimately led her to believe that you weren’t the right match for her.

Hence, she ended her interaction with you or let you know that she wasn’t interested in you romantically and you are now heartbroken.

Try not to take this personally.

Even though she may have come to realize that your personality and lifestyle wouldn’t fit what she wanted in a romantic partner, this doesn’t mean that every girl that you meet on an online dating site will think in this way.

You simply met someone who wasn’t your match.

You may have believed that she was because you liked her so much.

However, relationships are a two-way street.

Both parties have to feel the same way about the other for it to work. She simply didn’t feel that way about you.

Though your heart may be broken, you shouldn’t now go hibernate in your little corner and avoid reaching out to other girls on the online dating site.

If you continue being active on the online dating site, there is a good chance that you will eventually meet a girl who truly feels a connection with you and wants to be with you.