Oftentimes, one of the best ways to tell that someone is being sincere is in their actions over time.
To determine whether a guy that you met on a dating website is truly a sensitive guy and not just a cover, observe his actions.
If he is truly a sensitive, he will be consistent in how he shows it.
You will notice that he will use his words wisely.
He will tend to be careful not to offend you.
A sensitive guy will also often be self-deprecating.
He may put himself down lightheartedly from time to time and praise you instead.
He may say sweet words or phrases that can easily make you wonder whether a guy can truly be that sweet.
For example, he may talk about how he tends to feel really good whenever he talks to you because you are often one of the brightest parts of his day.
This is often how sweet a sensitive guy can be.
Again, these are sweet words or phrases.
However, you don’t know if he is being this way as just a cover for something else that he may want.
A guy who is truly sensitive is going to be consistent in what he says and how he behaves.
He is also very patient.
He is not in a rush or hurry to sleep with you.
He tends to be really invested in the process of getting to know you.
If this guy that you met on a dating website is truly sensitive, he will often be very considerate in what he chooses to do with you on a date.
He will not want to put you in environments where you may become uncomfortable or where you may get bored.
A truly sensitive guy will often run a few date activities by you before actually setting the date.
He wants you to be as comfortable as possible.
He has the mentality that, if you are not comfortable or happy with what the both of you will be doing at the date, he will not be comfortable or happy either.
He wants you to be happy with where the date will be at and with what activity that the both of you will be engaging in.
You will often notice this tendency to want you to be happy, not just with the dates that he sets up with you, but with how he communicates with you in general.
If this guy that you met on a dating website is truly sensitive, he will tend to be affected by how you feel emotionally.
In essence, how you feel emotionally will often rub off on him.
Hence, he will often want to make you happy.
If he is talking to you and you are having a bad day, he will do his best to cheer you up.
Your happiness is of concern to him.
If you aren’t happy, he isn’t happy either.
A truly sensitive guy will typically put out the effort to cheer you up whenever he senses that you are down.
He is also very good at sensing when you are down.
You may try to cover it up when you are talking to him but he is intuitive enough to understand when you are actually unhappy.
This is the kind of read that a guy who is just using sensitivity as a cover doesn’t have.
A guy like this will not often read into the fact that you had a bad day.
He may be so consumed with trying to portray the sensitive guy that he is unable to perceive emotion.
This is often how you know that a guy that you met on a dating website is just using sensitivity as a cover.
He can recite all of the fake words that he has prepared beforehand but if he is unable to read how you feel, he is not truly a sensitive guy.
As the saying goes, “It takes one to know one.”
If you tend to have sensitive tendencies, a truly sensitive guy would be able to read on that without you saying anything in relation to how you feel.
A guy who is just using sensitivity as a cover will never be able to read on that.
This guy’s behavior over time will also not be consistent.
You will notice that he may get to a point where he shows flashes of cruelty and then he quickly tries to cover that up by being sensitive again.
This is a major red flag.
He has those flashes of cruelty when he is reacting to a conversation spontaneously.
This is how you catch a guy who is truly not sensitive.
He will have moments where he forgets about watching his words and as a result he may spontaneously react to something that you said with anger or scorn.