It would be better not to tell this person that they would be the first or second date that you have ever had.
This is not because the person would think negatively of the fact that they would only be your first or second date ever.
This is more so about allowing the date to happen without any added pressure or anxiety on both parties.
Most people who are online dating are looking for a romantic partner.
If they were to meet someone on an online dating site and strike up a really good conversation with that person, they would be excited about the prospect of meeting that person.
If you are that person that they have been having a really good conversation with, they would be thinking about how wonderful it is that they have found a connection with someone on an online dating site.
They would not be thinking about your dating experience per se.
They would be more focused on how good of a time that they are having with you.
If you were to tell them that they would be the first or second date that you have ever had, they may be taken aback by the fact that you told them this information at this stage.
Being that they were not really thinking about your dating experience, they may be a little bit unsure as to why you told them that.
To them, they were perfectly happy just getting to meet you in real life on a date.
They were not thinking about your dating experience.
That really didn’t cross their mind.
Again, at this stage in your interaction with this person, it is not necessary to tell this person that they would be the first or second date that you have ever had.
Doing this may put the person in an awkward position.
Though they may have no problem with the fact that they would be the first or second date that you have ever had, they would wonder why you would tell them that now.
It may make them feel a little worried about what they should expect from the date.
They may start thinking that you are telling them this information because you don’t believe that the date will go well.
In essence, you may be trying to prepare them for a bad date.
If they were already nervous about the date, you would have made them feel even more anxious.
It would be so unnecessary to put this person in a position where they begin to worry about why you would tell them this.
Again, they are not worried because of the fact that they would be the first or second date that you have ever had.
This person that you met on an online dating site would be more so worried about whether you told them this because you are expecting the date to go bad.
By having these negative thoughts before they have even gone on this date, they may end up showing up to the date very hesitant about what to expect from you.
This attitude could put a damper on the whole date.
This is why it would be best that you keep the fact that this person is going to be the first or second date that you have ever had to yourself.
Telling this person would only add more unnecessary pressure to the date and make them feel uneasy in terms of what to expect from you.
Instead of telling this person and making them think in a way that would impede their anticipation of that first date, you should keep this information to yourself.
Go to the date and see how the both of you get along.
Let that experience speak for itself.
In going out on this date, you will gain more experience in dating.
In fact, as you go out on more dates with this person or someone else that you meet on an online dating site, you will continue to grow in experience.
It wouldn’t be long before you realize that you have now been out on numerous dates and are no longer a novice in this department.