Although it seems like no one is actually dating on these dating apps, they are.

It sounds like lunacy, given the fact that you have struggled to get dates with guys on these dating apps.

Nevertheless, people on dating apps are indeed dating.

Granted, it’s frustrating when you match with a guy, have a few promising conversations with him, and watch these conversations fizzle out.

Ditto for when he suddenly asks you to come to his place without so much as an offer to meet for coffee, a drink, or lunch.

Yes, it’s infuriating.

Especially when you are someone who is looking for a bona fide romantic connection with someone on a dating app.

The good news is that there are people who are matching on dating apps and meeting each other in person on dates.

The key to becoming one of these lucky individuals is to match with men who are interested in serious dating.

Obviously, you have stated that you are looking for a serious relationship on your dating profile.

Notwithstanding, that isn’t enough.

The dating profile you create should reflect what you are looking for.

Write a bio that is substantive, as you delve into rich topics that define who you are as a person.

Additionally, post photos to your dating profile that reflect what you are passionate about.

Eschew posting scantily clad photos of yourself.

Scantily clad photos give men the wrong impression about your intentions.

Even though you stated that you are looking for a serious relationship in your dating profile, these men won’t acknowledge that.

He is fixated on your scantily clad photos, and nothing else.

The dating profile you create must be consistent with your intention to find a serious partner.

These measures don’t completely eliminate all the men who aren’t interested in a serious conversation, but it reduces their number.

Furthermore, in asking open-ended questions that relate to activities that the guy loves or is passionate about, you avoid conversations that fizzle out.

Glean this information from what he has included in his dating profile and from conversations you have with him.

Open-ended questions around topics that he is passionate about, combined with good follow-up questions to his answers, keeps a healthy and robust conversation going.

This prevents boredom, while instigating a deeper interest.

As you demonstrate good conversational skills, he is compelled to ask you out on a date.

You see, there are measures you must adopt to get to a date with a guy you match with on a dating app.

On a dating app, you are constantly in competition with women who are looking to match with these men too.

To this effect, you have to be proactive in how you go about engaging with your matches.

An enormous number of women make a massive blunder when they adopt the strategy of having the man bear all the responsibility to instigate and keep a conversation going.

It’s no wonder that conversations eventually fizzle out with these men, given the sheer volume of options he has on a dating app.