Since you started on dating apps, you have been asked out on dates by men who acted as though they were serious about dating, when all they wanted was to sleep with you.
This is irritating.
The number of times you have arranged to meet up with a date for drinks, only to have him change plans and ask you to meet him at his place instead, is striking.
You weren’t born yesterday.
Having had your fair share of dates with guys from dating apps, you know what it means when a guy does this.
When a guy changes plans and asks you to meet him at his place for drinks instead of a neutral location, you know he wants to sleep with you.
You are tired of this.
It is so disheartening to set up a date with a guy from a dating app, only to have him change plans on you and request that you meet him at his place.
Ditto for guys who don’t even bother trying to set up a date with you.
These are guys who are blatant enough to message you and ask about hooking up.
Of course, when you tell him that you are looking to go on at least one date before entertaining the idea of sleeping with him, the guy argues with you to no avail or ghosts you.
Although you have been on your fair share of dates with men you have met on dating apps, the majority of these dates have been with guys who were more interested in sleeping with you than getting to know you and pursuing a serious relationship.
This has left you wondering how to go about getting these men on dating apps to understand that you likely will not be sleeping with them on a first date.
Your frustration is noted.
Lots of women on dating apps have this issue with men on dating apps.
There is no surefire method to avoid men who are strictly looking to sleep with you on dating apps.
There is no getting these men to understand where you stand on this.
Men who join dating apps with the sole intention of sleeping with women can’t be reasoned with.
He is thinking with one head, and that head is not above his shoulders.
Your best bet is to filter out men like this to the best of your ability on dating apps.
The men who aren’t on dating apps with the sole intention of sleeping with you are the ones who take the time to get it know you.
He isn’t in a hurry to meet you in person.
His dating profile is detailed, which is an indication that he put out the effort to create it.
He wasn’t in a hurry to set it up haphazardly, hoping to quickly match with women he wants to sleep with on a first date.
A guy who is interested in getting to know you as a person and wants a serious relationship asks the right questions of you that delves into who you are as a person.
This means he isn’t flirting or getting sexual with you in conversation too prematurely.
These are cues you should look for in a guy that is worth your time.