Continue getting to know her.

Guys make the mistake of pulling back once they have arranged a date with a girl that they met on a dating site.

They significantly cut back on communication, some even cut it off entirely until they reach the day before or day of the date.

Other guys, unsure of what to do, communicate too sporadically, unsure of just how much communicating they should be doing.

You shouldn’t make these mistakes.

Although the arranged date is not for another two weekends, you should still continue to talk to her regularly.

Guys are so worried that doing this means that they run out of things to talk about before or by the time the day of the date arrives, but this is an unnecessary concern.

To keep the interest alive, just keep learning more about her and have her learn more about you.

Avoid mentioning the upcoming date all the time.

This can make you come off as though you are too eager or nervous to get to it.

Instead, talk to her about her day, hobbies, adventures, guilty pleasures, etc.

As time goes on and the both of you have built a little rapport, start flirting with her lightheartedly.

Nothing vulgar.

Just give her the right kind of compliments without overdoing it.

Tease her in a way that makes her laugh or gush.

Just be smart about it.

Your conversations should be a good blend of substance, fluff and flirtation.

Plan on initiating conversation every other day.

The space in-between allows the both of you to reflect on a previous conversation while living your regular lives.

Always think about asking her follow-up questions to topics that she talked about in previous conversations.

This lets her know that you have been paying attention and that you actually care enough about getting to know her that you want to learn more.

Don’t dwell on the fact that the arranged date is not for another two weekends even though you have exercised restraint in not bringing it up as a topic of conversation.

Constantly worrying about how to keep her interest alive for the next two or so weeks makes you more nervous in your conversations with her and she easily senses this.

Anxiety only makes your conversations too safe, which makes them boring.

If she gets the sense that you are boring, she is not going to be looking forward to that date in two weekends and she finds an excuse not to go as the day of the date approaches.

This is why you should just clear your mind about that date and focus on the conversation that you are currently having with her.

It is about what is happening right now, not about what is coming in two weekends.

Maintain that focus and your conversations flow naturally.

If you do this right, she is actually the one who surprises you at some point in time as the day of the date approaches.

She starts mentioning or referencing the upcoming date in some way during conversations.

Without any prompting, she says something like, “I’m really looking forward to our date on Saturday,” or “You are so much fun to talk to. I can’t wait to see you this weekend.”

This is all of the endorsement that you need to let you know that the conversations that you have been having with her for the last two or so weeks have been going well.

She is reminding you about the upcoming date without you having mentioned a word about it since it was arranged.

When you meet her on the date, don’t worry about not having anything else to talk to her about.

At this point, you are actually at an advantage.

You have learned enough about her in the last two weeks that you have a ton of material to work with.

If the conversation starts with a whimper, just bring up something about what you have already learned about her and ask her a follow-up question to it or relate to it with your own life experience.

Once you get past the first few awkward minutes, the conversation should flow a lot easier and a lot more extemporaneously.