Online Dating: I Get Matches But Conversation Dies Off Quickly?

Online Dating: I Get Matches But Conversation Dies Off Quickly?

The conversation gets boring.

This is a substantial reason why the conversation dies off quickly.

A match is naturally interested in you for a limited amount of time.

Given the distractions that are inherent in a dating app, you have a finite amount of time to keep a match interested before the conversation dies off quickly.

Women especially, receive a ton of distractions on a dating app, given how many matches and likes they get.

The volume of matches and likes are overwhelming.

She has a hard time grappling with all of them.

This means that you have to keep her interested in your messages.

Otherwise, there are a limitless number of guys who are doing everything in their power to get her to talk to them.

To keep your conversations from dying out quickly, get into a pattern of changing topics fairly quickly.

Never dwell on any one topic for too long.

Dwelling on any one topic for too long leads to boredom on her part, and before you know it, she is losing interest in the conversation and it dies off quickly.

Change topics before those topics die out.

Be funny.

Women love to laugh.

Laughter triggers feel-good hormones in her called endorphins that make her feel pleasure.

This works in your favor.

Women have a tendency to look to their feelings in determining whether they want to keep chatting with a match on a dating app.

You want her to be laughing whenever she reads a message from you.

This makes her feel good, and she starts looking forward to your messages, waiting for them.

This is where you want to be with her.

This means that she is favoring your messages above the rest, which sets you apart from the men you are competing with.

A girl that is looking forward to your messages doesn’t let a conversation die off quickly.

Don’t be too overeager in how quickly you go about replying to her messages.

This never looks good to a girl.

When you are too quick to reply to her messages, she gets the impression that you don’t have much of a life, and all you care about and are excited about, are the messages you get from her on a dating app.

Although you like the girl and you are excited about her, don’t let your excitement get the best of you.

Instead, be measured in how quickly you reply to her messages.

Get busy doing activities in your free time so that you aren’t tempted to keep looking at your messages, hoping to hear back from her.

Give it a day or two before replying to her message.

This gives her the impression that you have a life and that you aren’t waiting around for her messages.

This makes you look promising and sets you apart from several men who are messaging her on a dating app.

Several of these men are so desperate to hear back from her, they send her double or triple texts.

Never be like this.

If you message her back and she doesn’t reply to your message right away or within a handful of hours, don’t sweat it.

Never send her a double or triple text.

Sometimes, women delay a response to test a guy, intent on determining whether he gets desperate and texts her again.

Don’t fall for it.

This keeps you from constantly getting matches who end conversations too quickly with you.