The only people that are sending you likes and messages on dating apps are people that you don’t find attractive.

This is a common complaint on dating apps, which means you are not alone.

The truth is, it isn’t that different from people that have liked you in real life.

Think about it.

Out of all the men who have liked you in real life, how many of them have you found attractive?

What is the percentage?

If you are like a lot of women in the world, most of the men who have liked you in the real world weren’t men you found attractive.

It’s no different on a dating app.

If anything, given the sheer volume of men on dating apps, it’s amplified.

Too many women make the mistake of thinking that a dating app is somehow different from the real world, and as a consequence, they will be spared the same struggles they have had in finding men they are attracted to.

The truth is, if you have struggled to find men you are attracted to in the real world, the struggle persists on a dating app.

And is amplified.

Given the significant number of men who are desperately trying to match with women on a dating app, you have to reject a greater amount of them than you normally would in real life.

This being said, be aware that there are guys on dating apps that you would find attractive.

Like in the real world, they are in the minority.

But they do exist.

The issue is, the majority of women on dating apps are messaging those guys.

These are guys in the highest brackets of desirability, which makes them popular with legions of women on a dating app.

With this much recognition from women in the form of likes and messages, he doesn’t feel the need to message a girl like you.

He already has an inbox that is filled with female admirers.

This is why it is a struggle for you to get noticed by these desirable men.

Should you choose to send him a message to open a conversation, it is arduous to get a response from him, or the conversation doesn’t go past a few message exchanges that inevitably fizzle out.

All of this makes for a terrible online dating ordeal.

To get the small minority of men on dating apps that you would find attractive to message you, create a dating profile that isn’t like that of the other girls that are vying for their favor.

Instead of posting selfies or a bunch of bikini photos, post photos of yourself involved in activities that these guys are into.

Hopefully, his dating profile has various activities that you share a passion for.

Instead of fixating on the common activities that other women would relate to, such as travel, pick something else.

These attractive men duly love doing activities that are traditionally beloved by men, such as playing sports.

Should you have an interest in any of these sports, post photos of yourself participating in them on your dating profile.

In the event that you don’t have photos like these, get out there in the real world and get a few photos taken of yourself as you participate in the sport.

It is photos like these that sets you apart from other women on a dating app.

These are women prone to posting photos that are either too boring, such as selfies, or photos that are trying too hard to capture attention, such as those with them in scanty outfits.

Photos of you involved in playing sports does a better job of capturing his interest, which in turn compels him to message you.

Guess what his first question is?

You guessed it.

He asks a question in relation to the sport you were playing in your photos.

From here, his interest in you is piqued and he wants to learn more about who you are as a person.