He is running hot and cold from worry in not knowing whether this will have a good or bad ending.

On the one hand, this guy that you met on a dating website may like the connection that he has been establishing with you.

He may think about what it would be like to actually go out on dates with you.

He may even think about what it would be like to be your exclusive partner.

The times that he is feeling really good about this interaction is when he is having these kind of positive thoughts.

He is thinking about what it would be like to truly be with you.

However, as he gets excited about these thoughts, he inevitably gets to the point where he becomes trepidatious.

He may worry about whether you would love him the way he would want to be loved.

He may worry about whether you would be loyal to him.

He may worry about whether you would try to change him.

This is when he starts feeling cold towards you.

He can go from feeling really hot about you, which is typically when he is full of hope, to feeling really cold about you, which is typically when he is filled with trepidation.

This is why this guy that you met on a dating website may run hot and cold with you.

This sense of trepidation that overwhelms him could be due to a previous relationship that he has had in the past with someone that he really cared about who ended up hurting him.

This may have been a previous girlfriend.

At first, they may have really gotten along.

He may have been incredibly excited about her.

Unfortunately, she may have ultimately become a nightmare to him.

Perhaps she kept trying to change him during the relationship or was even verbally abusive to him.

She may have eventually cheated on him, leaving him completely devastated.

This guy that you met on a dating website may have had a truly tumultuous experience with this ex that has now led him to run hot and cold in this way.

On the one hand, he gets excited about you and can’t wait to see where all of this leads.

On the other hand, he remembers what he went through with his ex girlfriend and decides to become cold so as not to put himself in a position where he is hurt once again.

Another reason why this guy that you met on a dating website runs hot and cold could be because he may naturally be a guy who tends to have real highs that often lead to sudden lows.

He can move from a high to a low very fluidly.

Being that he is capable of having these kind of of emotional responses that can switch from one to the other so effortlessly, you can’t really trust much of what he says.

For example, he could have a conversation with you where he gets really excited about taking you to a hockey game on Friday.

You would hear the excitement in his voice.

He may tell you about how much fun the both of you are going to have at this hockey game.

You may end the conversation with him on a real high.

You would have a smile on your face and would be looking forward to the date on Friday.

However, he may contact you on Friday and let you know that he won’t be able to take you to the date.

He may sound really sullen.

When you ask him if there is anything wrong, he may remain sullen and cold with his response.

He won’t give you details about the reason for the cancellation.

You will just get the sense that he really wants to just end the call.

You may wonder what you did.

After all, in the last conversation, he was so upbeat.

It really had nothing to do with you.

A guy who runs hot and cold like this may be more of the introverted type.

He is very comfortable with being in his own space and his own mind.

When you meet a guy like this on a dating website, he has convinced himself that it is time for him to find a serious relationship.

However, once the reality strikes that he will actually have to engage in activities with that person and thereby come out of his solitude, he freaks out.

As a result, he goes from hot to cold quite often.