Ask for her phone number first.

When you have spent some time communicating with a girl that you met on an online dating site and you are now looking to move this interaction to the next level, asking for her phone number first instead of asking her out on date will be the most auspicious move.

Getting her phone number gives you the opportunity to talk to her outside of the online dating site.

People often make the mistake of believing that simply because they shared chemistry with someone on an online dating site, that the same chemistry will happen if they were to meet that person on a date.

This is not true at all.

There may be a major difference in how you communicate with each other over the phone as opposed to when you were both communicating on an online dating site.

In asking for her phone number first and calling her, you will be able to get a much more realistic vibe of what your chemistry with this person is truly like.

Another reason why you should ask this girl that you met on an online dating site for her phone number first rather than asking her out on a date is because, getting her phone number and chatting with her will improve the chances of her showing up on the date.

It is much easier for a girl to not show up on a date when it is set up on an online dating site.

An online dating site is quite impersonal, being that it is a technological medium.

If you are dealing with a girl who isn’t really intent on meeting but is unable to just be honest and tell you she can’t, she may agree to the date but never show up.

It is much easier for her to agree to a date that she has no intention of showing up to because she doesn’t really have to see you or hear you when she does.

On the contrary, if you were to ask for her phone number first and call her, she will get to hear your voice and get a perception of how you are as a person.

If you were to ask her out on a date over the phone, it would be harder for her to be dishonest because by this point, you would have humanized yourself to her.

The fact that she has gotten to hear your voice alone has made you more real to her.

This makes it that much harder for her to agree to a date with you that she doesn’t intend to show up on because she has more of a real life connection with you now.

When you meet a girl on an online dating site and you are ready to take your interaction to the next level, it is best to ask for her phone number first rather than ask her out on a date because this will help in building up your level of importance and priority to her.

As of now, you are simply someone that she has met on an online dating site.

Though the both of you have had some good conversations, your level of importance to her is still relegated to that of someone that she met on an online dating site.

Hence, it is probably not that high.

A girl places much higher priority to the people that she talks to on her phone.

That is her phone and thereby a lot more personal to her.

The people that have that phone number are the people she would feel a much stronger connection to and hold on a much higher level of priority.

By asking for her phone number first instead of asking her out on a date, you would be putting yourself at a much higher level of importance and priority.

If you were only to ask her out on a date, she would look at you in the same way as all the other guys who may have already asked her out on a date on the online dating site.

In essence, you are not that important.

You are just one of many.

However, by asking for her phone number first, you are able to separate yourself from all the other guys who are trying to get dates with her on the online dating site.

This increases the chances that not only will she go out on a date with you in the near future but she may also want to keep you around.