It wouldn’t make you look desperate.
You are assuming that this is a guy who is out and about nightclub or bar hopping on a Saturday night.
That may not be the case at all.
He may be chilling at home playing video games on a Saturday night.
It won’t make you look desperate if you messaged a guy on a Saturday night at all.
You shouldn’t make assumptions about what people may be doing on a Saturday night.
He may not necessarily be out and about partying it up all over town.
Even if he was, it is still unlikely that he is going to look at you as being desperate by messaging him on a Saturday night.
He doesn’t even know you yet.
To make that kind of assumption would not be wise.
If you were to message him on a Saturday night, the thought of you being desperate for having done so would most likely not even cross his mind.
He would just be curious about your message.
He will take a look at your picture and read the message.
That is really all he is thinking at that point.
Even if he is out and about nightclub or bar hopping or socializing with friends, he would most likely not look at you as desperate for messaging him on a Saturday night.
For all he knows, you may also be out and about socializing on a Saturday night and just happened to take some time out to check your online dating account for messages.
In essence, the fact that you sent him a message on a Saturday night does not automatically make him assume that you don’t have a social life and you are just sitting at home bored.
Most people don’t leave the house without their smartphones.
They will often use their smartphones to log into their online dating accounts while they are on the go.
Hence, it is highly unlikely that the thought of you looking desperate in messaging him on a Saturday night would even cross his mind.
You may just be on the go, just like everyone else.
It wouldn’t make you look desperate if you messaged a guy on a Saturday night on a dating site because the guy may not even be into going to nightclubs or bars.
That may be the reason why he joined the dating site in the first place.
A lot of people get tired of the nightclub and bar hopping lifestyle.
There are truly a lot of people who turn to a dating site because they simply don’t like the Saturday night social lifestyle.
They have had their fill of nightclubs and bars.
They are simply tired of them.
They want to be able to speak normally to a person instead of screaming into their ear because of loud music.
They want to be able to pay attention to what a person is saying without being distracted by all the bumping, commotion and movement of a nightclub or bar.
They want to be able to feel safe about talking to someone without having to worry about a fight breaking out somewhere.
They want to be able to have an actual intelligent conversation with someone without having to deal with the person being so drunk and inebriated that they aren’t able to provide intelligent responses.
You would be surprised about just how many people absolutely disdain the Saturday nightclub or bar hopping lifestyle.
Again, this is why so many of them join a dating site. They are done with that lifestyle.
Any relationships that they may have somehow salvaged from those experiences were typically short-lived anyway.
This is because it can be really hard to meet quality people in these kind of environments.
So many of them have some kind of facade that they are trying to show the world just so that they can impress.
A dating site on the other hand is quiet and easy to navigate.
These people are much more within their element.
They actually have the time and space to have an intelligent conversation with someone.
Do not worry about looking desperate if you were to message a guy on a Saturday night on a dating site.
You would be surprised about the sheer number of people on a dating site who actually joined because they no longer want the Saturday night party lifestyle.