If you are honest about your intentions on the dating website and your husband is completely aware and in agreement with what you are doing, it isn’t wrong per se.

Again, your marriage is what both you and your husband have agreed to and feel comfortable in.

If the both of you are compliant in this and the guys that you are getting attention from on a dating website are aware of what you are doing, that is really all that is relevant here.

If you are being honest about your intentions on the dating website then guys would know the reason why you are on the dating website in the first place.

This way, if they choose to tell you that you are hot even when you have been clear about the fact that you are married and don’t intend to meet any of them, that would be on them.

You are all adults.

As long as everyone is fully aware of the situation at hand, whatever they choose to do beyond that point is their responsibility.

Where this can be all wrong is if you are not being honest about what you are doing to your husband or the guys that you are trying to get attention from on a dating website.

If these guys aren’t aware that you are married and that your only intent for being on a dating website is because you want guys to tell you how hot you are, they may end up sending you messages.

Even if you choose to ignore those messages, some guys will just keep sending them.

Eventually, you may become tempted to respond.

This could lead to you beginning to take time away from your marriage duties in order to have conversations with these guys on the dating website.

This could ultimately lead you to having an emotional affair with one of these guys.

Emotional affairs tend to lead to physical affairs.

You would only be able to keep the fact that you are married hidden from a guy for so long.

If you were to eventually divulge this information, it may be at a time when the both of you have already developed feelings for each other.

This could be heartbreaking to the guy that has taken out this much time to get to know you in the hopes of one day becoming a significant other to you.

If your husband isn’t aware that you are on a dating website trying to get guys to tell you how hot you are, you would be at a wrong.

You would essentially be doing all of this behind your husband’s back.

Regardless of whether you have no intention of meeting any of these guys, you are not absolved from responsibility.

You are still putting yourself on a platform so as to garner attention from the opposite sex.

Your husband is of the belief that he is the one that you should want attention from.

He believes that part of his role as your husband is to be the one that let’s you know how special you are to him and to continuously show you his admiration.

If you are on a dating website in order to get the kind of attention that your spouse is supposed to be exclusively giving you, you would be taking that role away from him.

As a married woman, perhaps you have been feeling neglected by your husband.

This may have persisted for some time and you are now fed up with it.

However, going on a dating website because you want guys to tell you how hot you are is not going to make your situation at home any better.

You would be going outside of your marriage in order to fix a problem that is within your marriage.

That would be the wrong approach to this.

You need to communicate with your husband and let him know how you feel about his lack of neglect.

That is how you begin the process of making yourself feel better in this marriage.

Your husband may truly be unaware that he has neglected you to a point where you are now so desperate for attention that you are willing to get on a dating website in order to get guys to tell you how hot you are.

Hence, this may be a problem that can be easily fixed as long as you communicate.