He may not be comfortable with speaking on the phone.

This guy that you met on an internet dating site may be more comfortable with texting than he is with speaking on the phone.

You may have spoken once on the phone at a time that he was willing to take the chance of talking to you on the phone.

He may have wanted to see what it would be like.

Perhaps he hoped that he would talk to you on the phone and be just as comfortable with you as he is in texting you.

However, he may have spoken to you once on the phone and realized that he didn’t enjoy it.

Hence, he may have gone back to the security of merely texting you for the last 3 months.

It may feel really frustrating that this guy that you met on an internet dating site would be this unwilling to talk on the phone.

However, he may just feel that he would be better off texting you instead.

He may have a lack of confidence when it comes to speaking on the phone and isn’t all that used to it.

The majority of the people that he communicates with in his day to day life probably primarily text him too.

Hence, he may feel like he is a lot more within his element when he is texting you than when he may try to talk to you on the phone.

Another reason why this guy that you met on an internet dating site has been texting you for 3 months and only spoken to you once on the phone could be that he may feel as though talking on the phone may take his relationship with you to the next level.

He may believe that if he were to start talking to you on the phone more frequently, you may get the idea that he wants his relationship with you to get more serious.

He may feel as though talking on the phone would be too intimate for the kind of relationship that he has with you.

He may have spoken to you on the phone once because at that moment he may have been tempted to take the relationship to another level.

Perhaps at that time, he considered the possibility of what it would be like to be in a serious long-term relationship with you.

He may have wrestled with that idea for a little while and decided to do a phone call in order to determine how he would feel during this call.

He may have wanted to gauge whether he would feel at ease and comfortable.

He may have also wanted to gauge whether there would be any chemistry during this phone conversation.

However, he may have had that one phone call with you and realized that it would be best to keep his relationship with you at the level that it is currently at.

In other words, he may have decided that it would be best to maintain the status quo.

By texting you for the last 3 months and only speaking to you once on the phone, he may be biding his time.

He may not know where he wants this interaction with you to lead but at the same time, he may not want to cut you out of his life entirely.

Though he may not have felt much chemistry with you during that one phone call, there may be a part of him that is still holding out hope that somewhere along the line he can try another phone call.

Perhaps the chemistry will be there then.

However, until then, he wants to play it safe by sticking to texting.