Tell her that you understand and will respect her wishes.
If this girl told you that she’s bogged down and doesn’t want to date at the moment, there is a reason for that.
Perhaps she has gotten a little weary with all of the attention that she has been getting on online dating sites and just wants to take a break.
If she is bogged down, there is a good chance that it could be because she may have also been going out on dates with other guys that she has been meeting on online dating sites.
Girls often receive a lot more messages from guys on online dating sites than guys receive from girls.
Hence, she may have been taking guys up on their offers to meet up on dates.
You may have merely been one of several guys that she has been going out on dates with.
She may no longer want to pursue dating at this time because she has simply become too overwhelmed.
She may be bogged down because she has been going out on too many dates.
She may not have expected this kind of attention from guys on online dating sites.
She may have had no idea that once she signed up on online dating sites, she would be inundated with so many messages from guys.
Hence, she may have simply gotten to the point where she just wants a break from it all.
If she told you that she is bogged down and doesn’t want to pursue dating at the moment, you should respect her wishes.
You shouldn’t try to change her mind.
This is often what guys do when they really like a girl and don’t want her to leave.
They say whatever they can think of in order to get the girl to stay and continue dating them.
They may even tell the girl that they are fine with being her friend for now and giving her time to think things through.
They may just want to find a way to stay in the girl’s life by whatever means necessary.
By saying that they would be happy to be her friend and trying to get her to agree to that, they would be putting themselves in a very inauspicious position.
They could end up waiting on this girl without any eventual reward of a relationship.
If the girl were to accept his offer of friendship, she would most likely put him in the “friendship” category in her mind.
This means that the likelihood of this girl changing her mind to look at him as a possible romantic mate in the future is next to impossible.
But this guy ends up waiting on this girl for such a long time in the hopes that she will soon want to pursue dating again and choose him.
Oftentimes, this guy gets a harsh awakening when he discovers that the girl has finally decided to pursue dating again, but she has chosen to start dating someone else.
All of the time that he has spent with this girl, trying to be her friend and be patient, has produced no reward.
He is, in essence, relegated to the friend zone forever.
This is never the position that you should allow yourself to be in.
If this girl that you met while online dating has told you that she is bogged down and doesn’t want to pursue dating at the moment, you should accept that.
You should say that you understand and respect her wishes.
Do not get into the mindset that being that she told you that she doesn’t want to pursue dating at the moment, she will come around at some point and want to date you.
Take what she told you as an indication that she has no intention of dating you, period.
This means that there is no chance of that happening at any point in the future.
You should politely say that you understand and respect her wishes.
Then you should move on with your life and start talking to other girls.