Girls on dating sites who simply won’t meet guys on a date, never had any intention of meeting guys on dates in the first place.
It may seem like they are afraid to date, but their lack of action may have nothing to do with fear.
They may have joined dating sites for the attention or to simply kill boredom.
They may seem afraid to date because they come off as really innocent when you ask them about meeting on a date in real life, but that may simply be an act.
When you ask them to meet up on a date in real life, they may turn you down but do so in a way that gives you hope.
Perhaps they tell you that they are so busy right now but they would love to meet you and they will let you know when they are available.
You may hear this and be hopeful that these girls indeed do want to meet.
You proceed to continue communicating with them on dating sites and giving them attention, which is what they most likely want and are on dating sites for, in the hopes that you will eventually get this date.
However, you may try asking them again on some future date to meet up for a date and again they come up with another excuse.
They may tell you that they have a family member or friend who is going through a really difficult time right now and they need to be there for them.
Hence, unfortunately, they are unable to meet up with you on a date but they hope to soon.
This is just such a difficult time for their family member or friend and they wouldn’t be a good family member or friend if they weren’t there for them.
Again, this may make it seem as though these girls are doing something noble.
Hence, it would put you in a position where it would be hard to get angry or impatient with them.
However, oftentimes, these are just delay tactics from girls who have no interest in actually meeting you on a date in real life.
They are not actually afraid to meet you on a date.
They just don’t want to.
You should ask yourself about whether there has been a pattern of behavior from these girls.
Look for these signs earlier on in your interaction with them so that you don’t end up expending so much time and effort on girls that never wanted to meet you on a date in the real world in the first place.
You don’t want to waste your time chatting with girls on dating sites who ultimately never want to meet, if your goal is to meet girls on dates.
A pattern of behavior that you can look for earlier on to let you know that you are dealing with this type of girl is if you notice that she rarely remembers what you both talk about.
She may often forget really salient or relevant details about some of your past discussions.
You may bring those details up and she may have no clue that the both of you talked about them in the past.
This is how you know that she tends to forget your conversations soon after you both have them.
This means that she is more self-centered and not really interested in retaining important information about you.
Once you notice this kind of behavior earlier on in your interactions with a girl, this is normally a really strong sign that you are interacting with a girl who won’t want to meet you in real life on a date.