Lots of women have the notion that men have an issue with being with women who are more financially well-off than they are.

Whether it be men in real life or on dating apps.

They believe that men are intimidated in dating women who are more financially well-off.

This isn’t true.

Self-assured men have no issue with the fact that a woman they matched with on a dating app is more financially well-off than they are.

They are already secure within themselves.

With this mindset, he is primarily concerned with matching with a woman he is physically attracted to, who possesses feminine characteristics.

Whether he is a lowly plumber or a wealthy bank executive, this is primarily what he is looking for in a long-term relationship partner.

How financially well-off the woman is, isn’t part of the equation.

This is where men and women differ in who they are seeking as long-term partners.

Women are concerned with how financially viable the man is, which speaks to her desire for financial security in a relationship, and men are concerned with how attractive the woman is and what feminine traits she possesses.

For him, it doesn’t matter if the woman is a waitress or a surgeon, as long as she has beauty coupled with femininity.

It’s the weak men who have an issue with a woman who is more financially well-off than they are.

These are the men who then use that as a metaphoric battering ram to make the woman self-conscious.

The idea is to make her feel guilt for having such financial success, which then forces her to contend with her life choices and outlook.

In continuously using her financial success against her, through criticizing her and what not, he gets to feel good about himself.

This isn’t a man who is self-assured in himself. It’s a guy who isn’t happy with how his life has gone and needs to put someone else down to make himself feel better.

You know when are dealing with weak men when they never show any signs of pride in who they are.

They are perpetually complaining about one thing or the other and never take responsibility.

You could be out on a date with him and he complains about his boss at work and how much of a jerk he is.

On another date, he is complaining about someone who took his lunch at work.

The next date, he is complaining about his car falling apart.

It never ends.

A weak man complains and never takes responsibility for his life.

As a financially well-off woman, a weak man is who you want to avoid on dating apps.

The self-assured man isn’t intimidated by your financial success.

As long as you have what he wants in a partner, in beauty and femininity.

If anything, a self-assured man lauds your financial success.

In return, he expects that you treat him with respect, whether he happens to be a lowly plumber or a wealthy bank executive.