You were right in not giving her your full name.

At this stage in the process of getting to know her on the online dating site, you may not feel comfortable letting her know your full name.

This is something that you feel and thereby it should not be taken lightly.

Perhaps you don’t feel that you have really gotten to know this girl well enough for you to divulge this kind of information.

There is nothing wrong with this.

As long as you were polite in letting her know why you aren’t currently willing to give her your full name, she should be understanding of that.

There are some people who start online dating and become really trusting of each other.

They may have only one or two conversations with the person and they are already exchanging lot of personal information, from their full names to their phone numbers and social media addresses.

Indeed, there are some people that hit it off really quickly with each other and may find it perfectly natural to exchange this kind of information relatively quickly with each other.

However, they do this because they mutually feel this way.

It feels natural for them to do it because they both feel a really good sense of ease and comfort with each other.

This may not be what you are experiencing at all.

Even if she may be feeling a strong sense of ease with you and asked for your full name as a result, you shouldn’t feel the need to divulge that information if you don’t feel comfortable doing so.

Sometimes, two people who are communicating on an online dating site aren’t necessarily feeling the same level of comfort with each other at the same time.

Sometimes, it takes a little longer for one of the parties involved to get to the level of comfort that the other one is at.

This may be what is happening in your case.

She may have asked for your full name because she wanted to feel an even stronger connection with you, as well as a sense of security by knowing what that is.

However, what she is feeling may not be what you are feeling at this time.

You may be perfectly happy with keeping things where they are at right now and not pushing this correspondence to a level that you don’t feel comfortable doing.

This is the right thing to do at this time being that this is how you feel.

Again, you should never allow yourself to be pressured to divulge information that you aren’t ready to divulge with anyone that you meet on an online dating site.

The process of divulging more personal information should happen because you are ready and comfortable doing so.

You may feel a degree of guilt and worry for not giving her your full name.

You may like this girl and may be hopeful of where this correspondence could lead.

Perhaps you now think that you have negatively affected your chances of getting to know this girl better, being that you didn’t give her your full name.

You should try not to let yourself think in this way.

If she is a decent person who has truly been enjoying her correspondence with you on the online dating site, she will understand why you chose not to give her your full name at this time.

She would understand that you don’t know her and you are only trying to get to a place where you feel comfortable enough with her to give her this information.

With this in mind, you should not suddenly start acting awkward or different in how you chat with her. You should still keep up the same kind of attitude and energy that you have had in your conversations with her.

This allows the both of you to move on from this without any unnecessary discomfort.

You may eventually get to the point where you feel comfortable with giving her your full name.

However, you should never allow yourself to do so until you truly feel ready.