Online Dating: Why Would An Attractive And Successful Man Want Someone Like Me?

Online Dating: Why Would An Attractive And Successful Man Want Someone Like Me?

It’s like a dream.

You matched with an attractive and successful man on a dating app.

Too good to be true.

You could hardly believe it when it happened.

In your mind, it had to be a lie.

This guy wasn’t real.

He was too perfect.

Yet, there he was.

Talking to you every day and eventually meeting with you on dates.

He looks even better in person than he does on his dating app photos, which doesn’t seem possible.

You are now left wondering about what is happening.

As far as you are concerned, you aren’t attractive.

You are introverted, awkward and uncool.

Yet, here is this attractive and successful man who can’t seem to get enough of you.

You were worried that upon meeting him on a date in real life, he would be appalled by your appearance and follow that up with ghosting you.

But he never has.

If anything, he has increased the amount of phone calls and text messages he initiates to you.

It’s like a dream and you are so worried that you are going to wake up one day and the dream will be over.

It has been such a worry to you that it has left you with sleepless nights.

The more you get to know him, the deeper you sink into this euphoria and it terrifies you.

You have thought about ending it with him, believing that doing this would save you the pain of getting dumped when he finally comes to his senses and realizes that he is completely out of your league.

You don’t want to be the one left heartbroken.

With that in mind, there have been a number of occasions where you have thought about ending it with him.

You stop short of doing it when you hear his warm voice in your mind and remember the last time you saw him and how amazing it was.

That keeps you from pulling the trigger on ending it with him in that moment.

But you know that the desire has a tendency to return and the longer you wait on ending it, the deeper you sink into this emotional torrent that has left you feeling like you are living in an alternate universe.

Stop overthinking this.

It’s time to acknowledge that this attractive and successful man sees qualities in you that you aren’t acknowledging about yourself.

Although you think you have no qualities that would be attractive to a man like this, you are clearly wrong.

Think about what your friends and family see in you.

What are they constantly complimenting you on?

That is what this guy sees in you.

Let go of what you think you are.

The last thing you want is to jeopardize a good relationship based on your insecurities.

Trust in your innate qualities.

Whatever he tells you that he loves about you, give him greater amounts of it whenever you are hanging out with him or talking to him.

This exercise increases your confidence in yourself.

Along these lines, you see that you have so much going for you than you realize.

With increased confidence over time, you are less likely to sabotage the relationship or end it out of a sense that he is out of your league.